Restore Each Other Gently


Sunday, May 19, 2013
Galatians 6:1-5
Matt Rawlings

Example: Imagine that you are on a hike in the Appalachian Mountains. And as you look down over a cliff, you see someone who has obviously slipped over the edge and fallen and now they are injured and unconscious, caught in a crevasse in the rock. They would need help and you would surely do what you could to get them out. You would probably begin looking for a rope or something you could lower down and pull them up. But because they were injured, you would need to be careful about the way that you took hold of them and brought them up. You would want to rescue them quickly and you would need to be strong. Your grip would need to be firm and yet you would need to be gentle if they were to be rescued and restored to health. All the while, you would need to be careful and make sure that you too didn’t fall.

This is something like what we are called to do in the church. You see, the church is full of people who have gotten caught and many of them don’t even know it. Some of your brothers and sisters have been overtaken by sin, slipped over the edge and some are caught in sin.
·         Perhaps Students are cheating on tests because it seems like the only way to pass.
·         Maybe a wife is bad-mouthing her husband.
·         Maybe a husband is belittling his wife.
·         Maybe someone is being unkind to their roommate and being selfish in their habits.
·         Maybe there is a pattern of rebellion and disobedience in someone’s life.
·         Perhaps there is a guy who is lazy and isn’t taking responsibility for what God has called him to.
·         Maybe there is someone who is complaining constantly and is bitter and angry.
·         Or possibly there is someone who is being unkind in their speech.
·         Maybe someone else is bitter and angry and harboring unforgiveness.
·         There may be someone who has committed some grievous sin that is hard to understand and tempting to be angry about.
 
What should you do if you aren’t caught in that sin and you can see that they are? More importantly, what does God call you to do? And how do you do it? You see the church is full of imperfect and flawed people who will from time to time get caught in sin and be overtaken by sin – and we may not be aware of it. As Brothers and Sisters, we are called to have compassion and do something about it and not just stand idly by.

Really, the main idea of this passage could be put simply.  One way of stating the main idea of this scripture is that...

Main Idea: We are called to help restore our fellow brothers and sisters, knowing we need help too.

Paul is speaking to Christians here in these verses and the assumption is not that someone is not a Christian if they are caught in sin. Being caught in sin doesn’t disqualify someone from the Christian community but it does mean that the Christian community needs to help those who are caught in sin, in order to restore them.

In saying “if anyone”, it is also implied that anyone is capable of being caught in sin. Anyone is susceptible to being caught in sin. It is possible for any Christian to be overtaken with sin. And the kind of sin it is possible for anyone to be overtaken in or caught in isn’t specified – it is any transgression.
·         So, maybe someone had lied on their taxes or someone committed fraud and is milking the government and owes a lot of money now.
·         Or maybe someone is caught up in lust.
·         Or someone is caught up in telling lies to others in the church.
·         Or maybe someone is gossiping or slandering other people.

The kind of transgression isn’t specified – it is any transgression. Brothers and sisters, anyone can be caught in any transgression. At the outset of this verse, this should temper the way that we view people sinning. Sin isn’t unexpected and sin isn’t surprising and in fact, anyone can be caught in sin. This should help us guard against self-righteousness and from thinking that we aren’t susceptible, that it isn’t possible for us to be caught in sin. It is possible for anyone to be caught in any transgression and the body of Christ is meant to be a place of grace, where we respond to those brothers and sisters who are overtaken and help them.

The second half of the verse helps us know what to do when we encounter a fellow Christian caught in sin.  The scripture says, "you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness." What we are called to do when we encounter another Christian who is caught in sin is clear in the first two verses, and it is the first point I want to draw your attention to. Through these verses, God is telling us to...

1. Restore your fellow sinner and bear their burdens
“you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness.”

You who are spiritual. Now what does that mean? Does that mean that only the top ten percent of the church – the super spiritual are called to deal with people overtaken or caught in sin? Does it mean that only if you are really spiritual can you restore someone? No, it just means you who belong to the Holy Spirit, or you who have the Holy Spirit. This is anyone who has placed their faith in Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of their sins and been born again – you who belong to the Spirit of God and have been made into His spiritual people.

So, what should you do when you encounter someone who is caught up in sin?
·         Should you go to your small group leader or your best friend and get advice?
·         Should you ask for prayer for that person the next time you pray with other Christians?
·         Should you tell your pastor?
·         Should you write about it on a blog?
·         Should you write them an anonymous letter and leave it on their car windshield or in their door, saying “I know what you did – stop it!”?

No, we are to go to that person. We are to go individually, face to face and talk to them about their sin. It will require confronting them and it will require boldness and courage. It is easier to talk to people about other things. It is easier to talk about sports or kids or food and keep things light. All of you, should restore the one caught up or taken up in sin.

[Illustration of restoring old mahogany furniture – the restoration process may require removing some layers of paint and sanding – but the goal is to make it new, to bring it back into shape, to make it beautiful again.]

The word restore, was used in Matthew 4, when Jesus called his disciples, and it says that they were mending or restoring their nets. They were in the process of repairing their nets, making them strong once more, making their nets useful again, so that they could catch fish as they were designed to do. Christians, you are to approach those who are caught in sin, in order to repair, to mend, to strengthen them – to restore them to usefulness and to a right relationship with God.

We have this mistaken notion that to love someone else is to only say nice and comfortable things to them. Now, we SHOULD say things nicely and we should be kind and gentle and merciful – but living in community and actually loving each other will require that we say hard things – that we say things that might be difficult and that might hurt because we love our brother and sister. The scripture doesn’t say when you discover someone caught in sin, you belittle them or mock them or punish them harshly – it says the goal is restoration – so that your fellow brother or sister may be made right with God and brought back into fellowship once more.

And we are not to restore someone harshly. We are to restore them in a spirit of gentleness. The apostle kindly tells us to restore one another with gentleness. And then he warns us immediately afterwards. Have you ever read this verse and wondered why? Why in the world would he warn us immediately after telling us to restore one another with gentleness? I think it is because we are tempted to correct people harshly. This is convicting – especially when it comes to my family. I am tempted to correct my wife and children harshly. But most often, when there is harshness involved in correcting someone sinning, it is because there is self-righteousness. When we are impatient and intolerant of other people’s sin and we are indignant that someone else is caught in sin, it is often because we don’t think we would have sinned. Or, we think that they should know better and do better because we know better and do better. But very frequently, what is behind our thinking we know better and we would have done better is self-righteous pride. At other times, we can be harsh because we are lazy and someone else’s sin interferes with our plans or our agenda and it is taking effort and we get annoyed that we have to make an effort.

"And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will." (2 Timothy 2:24-26)  

We are to restore others, knowing that we too were caught in sin. God sent His Son to deliver us and gave us the Holy Spirit to bring the gift of conviction and rescue us from death, deliver us from our blindness, and Jesus brings us to God the Father. We don’t come to God as those who are perfect – but we come through the perfect One, who is in the process of making us all into His image. But we aren’t done yet – none of us has arrived and we may be caught in sin sometime and need to be restored too. So we are to restore each other in a spirit of gentleness. And we are warned, “keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted”.

2. We must watch out for pride and self-righteousness when we help

We may be tempted to pride. We may be tempted to self righteousness. We even may be tempted to think about the sin we are helping others with so much that we are tempted ourselves. So, let’s make sure we don’t engage in sin and don’t stay focused on sin – stay focused on strengthening, repairing and restoring each other to God and His Word, to fellowship and prayer, to a right relationship with Jesus, through repentance and faith in Him.

Scripture goes on to tell us to, "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." The goal is restoring someone who is caught in sin and we are to do so in a spirit of gentleness. And this requires bearing one another’s burdens. It is not easy to confront and help someone who is caught in sin but we are called to bear one another’s burdens in this way and in a whole host of ways, precisely because Jesus Christ has loved us when we didn’t deserve it. God had mercy on us when we didn’t deserve it. We are all undeserving sinners, until God makes us deserving as we trust in the life that Jesus lived in our place and trust that God has credited all of the good deeds of Jesus and all of the law-keeping of Jesus to our account. This kind of caring – this kind or burden-bearing – this kind of loving, it is only possible because of the love the Jesus has loved us with.

But what about the second part of verse two? What in the world is the law of Christ? "I thought that Galatians is all about grace and how we are to live not according to the law but according to grace." But I believe what the apostle Paul means is the law of love. Jesus came to fulfill the law, so that we don’t have to and yes, Jesus came to do away with the curse of the law. In Galatians 5:14, it says, "For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'" 

The whole law is fulfilled in this one command – “love your neighbor as yourself.” It is through loving our neighbor that our love for God is revealed and carried out. Jesus said in John 13:34, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another." What Paul is saying – what he Holy Spirit is saying through this Scripture is that it is as we restore one another in a spirit of gentleness and as we bear one another’s burdens, that we will fulfill this commandment of Jesus Christ to love one another as we have been loved. He bore all of our burdens and so we love one another as He did by bearing one another’s burdens. Seeing someone sin and then confronting them and mercifully, gently restoring them is loving.

"For if anyone thinks he is something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself."

Verse three tells us, “for” or “because” if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceived himself. The New Revised Standard explains the gist of this verse right when it says, “for if those who ARE nothing think they ARE something, they deceive themselves." So, what it is saying is that none of us are anything on our own. None of us had any intrinsic worth before God on our own. None of us were morally anything. It isn’t saying that we aren’t really here. It isn’t saying that we are physically nothing. It is saying, “if anyone does think himself to be something – being nothing – he deceives himself.

On our own we are nothing – but Jesus Christ came to make us valuable in Him. He came to give us worth and value and to make us significant but we didn’t do this ourselves. And keeping this mindset enables us to guard against being self-righteous and proud when we need to confront and help restore someone to Jesus. That person who is sinning is in need like you and I were in need and like we are in need.

Go humbly. Don’t provoke or discourage. Remember you sin too and you will be tempted to sin and fail. You may be the one helping today but you will need help tomorrow. The person who is caught in sin, is in need of finding and experiencing God’s grace and forgiveness and they are in need of repentance so that they can be made right with God.

The great reformer Martin Luther got some things right. He didn’t get everything right – none of us do, but he got a whole lot of things right. And one of the things he got right was the very scriptural idea that none of us has any merit before God on our own. Martin Luther understood Galatians well and he very helpfully once said, “God receives none but those who are forsaken, restores health to none but those who are sick, gives sight to none but the blind, and life to none but the dead. He does not give saintliness to any but sinners, nor wisdom to any but fools. In short: He has mercy on none but the wretched and gives grace to none but those who are in disgrace. Therefore no arrogant saint, or just or wise man can be material for God, neither can he do the work of God, but he remains confined within his own work and makes of himself a fictitious, ostensible, false, and deceitful saint, that is, a hypocrite.” (Luther W.A. 1.183ff)

We are deceived if we think that God got a good catch when He found us. If you think that you’ve never done anything bad or wrong and that you are mostly a good person and that of course God saved you – because after all, He should have, then you are deceived. If you think you are not forsaken without Him, you are deceived. If you think you were not spiritually sick and blind, and dead in sin, you are deceived. Listen to Luther again, “He does not give saintliness to any but sinners, nor wisdom to any but fools. In short: He has mercy on none but the wretched and gives grace to none but those who are in disgrace. Therefore no arrogant saint, or just or wise man can be material for God, neither can he do the work of God, but he remains confined within his own work and makes of himself a fictitious, ostensible, false, and deceitful saint, that is, a hypocrite.” Let us all keep watch on ourselves so that we are not tempted to think this way and let us keep watch on ourselves so that we are not deceived into thinking we are something in ourselves.

"But let each one test his own work, and then his reason to boast will be in himself alone and not in his neighbor."

You see, Paul has just warned us against pride in verse 1 and 3 and now, he seems to be saying that we are to boast in ourselves. What is going on? Is Paul schizophrenic? Is this verse contradicting the other one – we are morally nothing but we have reason to boast in ourselves alone? No. Paul isn’t confused and he isn’t contradicting himself. Instead of looking at someone else’s work and comparing ourselves to them, we are to look at ourselves. Put a different way, the third thing we can see from these verses is that...

3. We have our own stuff to look after

We won’t give an account for how someone else lived, we will give an account for ourselves alone. Notice it says that the reason to boast “will be”? This is a future that is being referenced. When we stand before God, we will each give an account before God on our own. We won’t be evaluated for how someone else lived. We will be evaluated for how we live. This should make us grateful but this should also keep us humble.

This verse is helping us guard against comparing ourselves to others and thinking that we are better than them. Because inevitably, when we are looking to justify ourselves and justify our behavior, we will always find someone who seems worse off than us or seems to be a worse sinner than us. We will find people who are struggling in sin, who are caught in sin in ways that we are not and we will be tempted to think that we have reason to boast, because we are better than them.

But, don’t get this verse out of context of these 5 verses and the whole letter to the Galatians itself. Remember – “in ourselves we are nothing, so don’t think you are something and be deceived.” Earlier in Galatians 2:20-21, Paul said, “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. I do not nullify the grace of God, for if justification were through the law, then Christ died for no purpose.” We have no merit on our own. It is like we have been crucified with Christ and the life that we now live, we live by faith in the Son of God who loved us and gave Himself for us. There is nothing that Paul or you or I can or could ever earn. And if we can be justified or acceptable to God on the basis of our works then Christ died for no purpose!

Then, Paul writes the strongest words to any church in Galatians 3:1 and he calls them fools. He says, "O foolish Galatians! Who has bewitched you? It was before your eyes that Jesus Christ was publicly portrayed as crucified. Let me ask you only this: Did you receive the Spirit by works of the law or by hearing with faith? Are you so foolish? Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh?" We aren’t to take sinful pride in our works – it is Christ Jesus who justifies us and He is the One who enables us to live for Him and we are called to a life of faith in Jesus, trusting in Him to obey Him.

So, NO, Paul is not encouraging us to be proud of how good we are on the basis of our own works. In fact he says that those who have been made righteous live by faith in the Son of God. So, all of the glory goes to Jesus – all of the boasting is about how Jesus was at work in us. And the context seems to indicate not a present boasting but a future boasting.

Look ahead at verse 5, it says “for each will have to bear his own load.” It is speaking about how each one of us will be accountable before God – each one of us has to bear our own load on the day of judgment. But on the day of Judgment, we can boast in Jesus and we can boast in the works that we did through trusting in Him and as we were enabled by Him. And the good news is that Jesus told us in Matthew 6:18, “And your Father who sees in secret will reward you."

"But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil."
(Luke 6:35)  

"For each will have to bear his own load." Guard against pride – don’t compare yourself to others. Don’t go thinking you are better than others. Remember that you will have to bear your own load and you need help with your load too. All of us are responsible for our own behavior. This protects us from the victim mentality as well – we alone are responsible for our own load. Even though we are called to restore each other and to bear each other’s burdens, we cannot claim that we are victims if others don’t seem to be doing this for us. After all, we are the ones accountable for our own works and we all have to bear our own load. So help bear someone else’s burdens because they will give an account on the final day and you will give an account and have to bear your own load. You also cannot take credit for someone else’s growth.

“Life in the spirit is community life”- Tom Shreiner

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